Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Help! i need some legal advice on custody / child support / divorce !!!!?

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I recently left my husband. We have 1 child together and 1 on the way. My husband still lives down south, and I moved to delaware (with the child). In delaware, my husband is considered a repeat offender and has several felony charges and is also a known drug user. Currently, he is not on drugs however. He doesn't have a car or a place of his own, and never stays at the same job to long.





I am trying to work things out with him where we don't have to go through the courts, but he is being an a--hole. He sends me all kinds of emails about how he's going to make sure I don't get any help from welfare, and how I can't make him pay child support b/c were married, and how he's going to get the kids.





I have several questions-





If we r married but living in seperate states n he isn't supporting his child, can I get child support? What about help through welfare?





Is it possible that a judge would grant him even JOINT custody? With his record?





He was put in jail for a few months for assault on a pregnant female (me) but was never convicted b/c I didn't show at court - would the judge still look at that?





We were married in SC- can I file for legal separation in delaware, or do I have to travel all the way to SC?





What are my options in this case? Are there lawyers out there that I can consult about this for free?





What is the best thing for me to do in this situation?





Serious answers only please!!! Thanks to all in advance!Help! i need some legal advice on custody / child support / divorce !!!!?
Then only way you can force him to give you child support, is by involving the court system. You would have to file a Motion for Child Support. With Welfare, you are going to have to apply for that.





Custody decisions are determined by what the best interests of the child are. And it is the presumption that it is best for the child for each of the parents to be equally involved in the child's life as much as possible - therefore, they would LIKE to reward him joint custody. However, the circumstances with him there is a chance that he might not get it... depends on the judge. If you don't want him to have it, you're going to have to show that he is unfit to be able to parent this child. However, even if you are granted sole custody, you aren't going to be able to deny visitation... he's still the kid's dad, and he has a right to visitation [[even if he isn't paying support]].





You should have showed at court. No, if he wasn't convicted, it's not going to matter. Because you didn't show, he was found innocent. Sure, you can try to bring it up again in family court, but you are going to be embarrassed when they ask you, ';well, why didn't you follow through with your allegations of abuse?'; and just assume that you made it up.





You can file for a legal separation in Delware if you have been a resident long enough. Every state has a different time period. If you just moved there last week, probably not.





The best thing for you to do is to find a lawyer. They have discounted legal service programs in every state for people who cannot afford legal representation. I suggest you find one of those.Help! i need some legal advice on custody / child support / divorce !!!!?
That's a whole lot of questions. (lol) I'll just say this. Remember that no matter what you claim your husband has done.......it still HAS TO BE proven in a court of law. The burden of proof is on you.





I suggest seeking MEDIATION. That is a way to avoid paying an attorney, and stay out of court. But...your ex has to cooperate in order for you BOTH to benefit from a mediator.





If your ex wants to fight you for joint custody, the judge will MOST LIKELY rule that way unless your ex is a danger to your child, and you can PROVE that your ex is a danger to the child. But since he has been in so much trouble with the law, you will MOST LIKELY be granted temporary sole custody of your child, until your ex can prove to the judge that he can be a responsible PARENT.





The jurisdiction for your marriage will stay in SC, so yes....unless you file for ';change of venue'; to delaware, you'll have to travel back to SC.





The judge will ALWAYS rule based on ';what is in the BEST INTEREST of the child'; Not anyone else.
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  • Some state of wisconsin legal advice please?

    I quit my old job on feb. 28, 2008 because i got a great job offer that wanted me to start the next day. i was at my old job a 6 months to the day. i worked super hard and had absolutely no complaints from my managers and i loved me job. then one day the general manager sat me down and said hey we know you stold $2k so either you admit it now and you will pay us back and we'll let you know or we call the local police and they can charge you for it. they said they had video evidence but wouldnt let me see it. i didnt do it, so thats what i told them, they suspended me from work for three days. i had two of my reg. days off and three suspension days so later that week i called and asked when to come back like 7am or whatever. no response. sent three voicemails and three emails and the day before i was supposed to come back, my manager calls me to come in at an odd time and meet. i sat down and they said again, its obvious you did it. you either admit to it or the cops are on their way. %26gt;Some state of wisconsin legal advice please?
    Contact the Department of Industry, Labor and Human Relations. Let them know you have been suspended and accused of stealing, but they refuse to show any evidence. You may be able to get unemployement and if it's found that it is a false accusation, you can sue them. Contact a lawyer, most will give a free consultation, to see if you have a case. The lawyer will request the video, most likely.


    Good luck

    Need a bit of legal advice?

    ok here is the story...





    i got a ticket a few weeks back, and couldn't pay it or make it to court.





    i know, i know stupid. but hey people make mistakes live and learn right...





    anywho..i did some research online and found out i have a warrant. which i kind of figured, there was also an option to pay my fines online, which are now doubled since there is a warrant.





    do you know is that all i have to do to make this go away? just pay the fines?





    thanks








    yes i know wrong category, but YA wanted to put this in careers =/ and i don't know exactly where to put it :(Need a bit of legal advice?
    If the website gave you know additional information, then you should call the courthouse to find out how you need to proceed.Need a bit of legal advice?
    you'll be happy to know all you have to do is pay the fine


    and it will all go away


    trust me i know i've been there before


    but just pay it online or you can even go in


    and it will be over wit
    call the courts and ask them. Tell them you are interested in paying the ticket/fine.
    Paying the fines online won't dismiss the bench warrant. You can pay them, then call the courts to set up another day to show up. Then show that you paid those tickets, but claim that you didn't know about the warrant and say that you are showing up in good faith. They should just let it go at that, but if you get an a**hole judge, he might give you some community service.





    If they asked you how you knew about the warrant, tell them that you were doing research because you are thinking about getting a job that requires a background check (the military would be a good example) and that you wanted to go without any unresolved issues.





    I don't know how it works in your city/state, but trust me, I used to be in traffic court all the time and learned a thing or two about the way it works in my city.

    Lawyers or attorneys please! legal advice? My customer failed to pay me!?

    Yes...Hi, I am a small business owner. I paint homes for a living. I also attend college full time. I recently was not payed money owed to me for work that I performed. My customer with held my contract for several months without giving me the copy as promised (of course...that was a mistake on my part), but I had performed several extra projects for her..and not only did she not pay me for those..but she had not finished paying me for the original agreement either. What can I do? Lawyers or attorneys please! legal advice? My customer failed to pay me!?
    Having a copy of the contract would help, but not having a copy doesn't mean you're without recourse.





    Without documents, the customer may argue that the additional projects were within the scope of the original agreement, and may argue that you agreed to less compensation than the contract provided. It'll be up to the judge (or jury) to determine whose argument has greater credibility. So always be calm, dignified, accurate, and honest when discussing this.





    If she's a deadbeat, she's probably been sued before. Your state probably has a way to look up civil suits online. See if she has other collections actions filed or judgments against her.





    You have two options.





    1. Small claims court. Different states permit recovery at different amounts. One state may only permit $3000 and another $5000. If the amount you want to recover is in your state's ballpark, look into bringing suit in small claims court. You can represent yourself, but do your research. You can probably bring her other adverse judgments in as evidence that she has a history of nonpayment. Bring photographs and all documents relating to the case. Be very organized and very calm. Wear a suit or something professional and remove all your jewelry besides 2 earrings.





    2. Civil suit. If the amount you need to recover is more than the small claims maximum, you're going to need to contact an attorney and bring suit in state court.





    Good luck.Lawyers or attorneys please! legal advice? My customer failed to pay me!?
    You can talk more or you can sue. In some states, you will run into a problem. In my state, a painter is a contractor and must be licensed as a contractor and if not licensed he cannot maintain an action on the contract but can only recover the cost of the job.
    She owes you the money. If your state allows it place a mechanic's lien on the property. This will get her attention, if she still doesn't pay, then bring suit.
    you can simple go to small claims court. check with your local muncipal offices to see how you get a date on the docket..../
    Well that depends on how much she owes you. If its less than the limit set forth in your location your only recourse is to take her to small claims court.
    take her to small claims court

    Im looking for some legal advice on a wrongful termination from my ex job?

    i started working at round table around april 11 2008. they stared me as a cook an i mastered it and wanted more, so i started to work extra harder an better so i can evolve in the company an get a higher position and thats what i did. After working four months with the company the north texas store needed extra help so they sent me over there two help. i worked with the north texas store an waterman store together for about two months, everything was going well an my work performance got better. the waterman manger really liked me and the work i did so they promoted me to supervisor on 10-22-08. Until i went to work on the 27 of october at the north texas store an they said i was off the schedule i couldnt understand why so i called up the waterman store the store that highered me an tried to figure out wat was going on, an all she could tell me was that i was suspended until further notice. So the payday friday came on 10-31-08 an i came to get my check and figure out why i got suspeded an when i can come back two work. when i got there i asked for my check an the manager said where is your cloths, i aked her am i getting fired an she said yes and i aked her why an she gave me no reason. so i went to go get my cloths and i thinking she's going to tell me when i give her my cloths but she didnt. I found out from my employers why she fired me like weeks later because they said that i was drinking on the job because they found en empty bottle of vodka in the trash in my area. which all they had to do was ask me because the cashier in the front found it an through it away in my station, so they assumed that i was drinking which is wrong an unfair now i am still without work in an area were there is ressesion very bad.Im looking for some legal advice on a wrongful termination from my ex job?
    If you can get that cashier to testify on your behalf, then yes, it is likely you would have a case. If not however, it is just your word against theirs.Im looking for some legal advice on a wrongful termination from my ex job?
    Unfortunately, unless you work in Montana, you work in an ';at will'; state. And, that means the your employer can fire at any time, and for any reason at all. Or, even for no reason at all.
    No case but you can collect unemployment.
    You can be fired for any reason, and they don't even have to give you a reason
    They have no proof. This is wrongful termination. Any tribunal will see your rise and advancement through the company is not the work of a person who drinks on the job.


    Its companies like these that deserve everything they get. I would take it further and go for full compensation for the loss of employment. Not because of the money but because of the principal of the matter.


    Then i would walk up to the manager after winning and say to them , Next time u wont be so quick to judge and watch the look on their face.


    This is the problem with jumping from store to store , there is no loyalty between people when u dont know each other.

    Expecting mama needing some legal advice.?

    My boyfriend and I are expecting a baby boy in November, I am 5 months pregnant and am only with him because of the baby. I cant stand being around him, he has anger issues, He is controlling, he is really negative about everything, and he wont get a real job. He tries to control everything about the baby, saying the baby will sleep at his his house and not mine and what I can and cant buy for the baby. He tries to control who my doctor is, what hospital im going to have the baby off and so much more, its to the point where I cant stand it anymore. He is a convicted felon for possession of marijuana with intent to sell. He was sentenced to a year of anger management because he beat up his x-girlfriend and she pressed domestic violence charges on him. My question is if I leave him is there any chance he would get custody of the baby? He thinks he will, but I would be afraid to leave him alone with the baby. Do you think that I would be able to get sole custody once the baby is born? Im just looking at what my options might be, thank you for your help.Expecting mama needing some legal advice.?
    did you not know all this bad stuff about him before you jumped in to bed with him without using some type of birth control???Expecting mama needing some legal advice.?
    You should leave him since he is controlling, demanding and has a history of violence. He has no right to control your choice of doctor, hospital, etc. He will have parental rights once the baby is born. You should consult a lawyer now where you live so that he/she is ready to file a Petition against dad seeking a declaration of paternity, giving custody to you and requiring him to pay child support.
    Yes, leave him. No judge would give him custody of a baby with his record, unless you have one yourself! He will probably get visitation rights, and you can ask the judge for supervised visitation if you are uncomfortable leaving the baby alone with him. Its a sucky situation, but until he proves he can be in control of his anger, he should be supervised.
    He will not be getting custody, trust me. You need to file as soon as that baby is born and make sure he gets supervised visitation.





    I hate to break it to him but since you two aren't married, you really has no say in anything that has to do with you and having the baby. If you were smart you'd give him your last name.
    In 49 states the baby is born in your custody (AZ is the exception) because you aren't married. He has to prove paternity to get visitation. The felony and dv won't help. He might get supervised visitation.





    Call 800.799.SAFE for a local referral to a DM center. They can guide you through the law.





    Get away froim this man before he hurts you.
    I don't think it's likely, especially since he doesn't have a job, is a convicted felon and has had anger management for a year in the past.
    There is no chance they will give him sole custody. He will be lucky to get supervised visits with his criminal history. For him to think otherwise is dillusional.





    Why would you have a child with this man?????
    So I guess I am going to be a ***** here - if you knew that he was a convicted felon then why in the hell would you lay down with him and make a baby that had no choice but to be born to a father who is a drug addict and felon and a mother who doesn't have a head on her shoulders? You can't even take care of yourself let a lone a new baby. Do yourself a favor and put the baby up for adoption to a family that has the time, money and place to support a child without the risk of endangerment.
    He is a control freak and a convicted violent offender, plus he he is also down as a drug dealer, need I say more?


    Don't let this man bully you just because you are in a vulnerable state, because he is only doing this because you are pregnant, and an easy target at the moment. Get a lawyer and watch them rip him to shreds. What he is doing right now is considered emotional, and mental abuse!


    Apply to the courts right now for full custody if not for the very reasons you have stated here!

    URGENT!! Need no cost legal advice for widow who's spouse committed suicide;inlaws have own interests not hers

    Please help....My good friend who's husband committed suicide on sept 10, 2007. There's real and personal property. No will. The inlaws are pushy, self-serving and disrespectful of her feelings %26amp; rights. She was physically and mentally abused prior to his suicide. She just wants what is rightfully hers and to be treated fairly and respect her rights. She has and has had no income thru the entire marriage, is disabled and is a having hard time, as she is unsure as to exactly what is and isnt suppose to happening. Petrified she may get booted out of the home she and her husband shared. Knowlege and info would be priceless, not knowing is the majority of the fear. Please help asap with any info, referral and/or advice...thanksURGENT!! Need no cost legal advice for widow who's spouse committed suicide;inlaws have own interests not hers
    I'm not a lawyer, but my understanding is that under most US Law the legal-spouse is by default the immediate beneficiary of all assets left by the descedent spouse. Especially if there's no will. Again, I'm not a lawyer, but it would seem that the in-laws have no claim or power to decide what happens to marital property and assets.





    Definitely get some legal representation and ask what the best course of action is: Perhaps they will issue restraining orders and/or (if possible) issue injunctions against the inlaws asking them to cease-n-decists their actions agains the living spouse.





    SOunds like the in-laws are a bunch of vultures. The guy hasn't even been buried and they're all over his stuff. Talk about lack of respect.URGENT!! Need no cost legal advice for widow who's spouse committed suicide;inlaws have own interests not hers
    Being that there is no will, whatever he had would go to the next of kin. However, these things can get complicated. See a lawyer.
    Dave is right, everything depends on the state. The situation you describe is called ';intestate succession';, which means without a written will. State law specifies how the dead person's property is inherited. Usually, it's divided up between the wife and the man's children, if there are any. If there are no children the wife may very well take all. Siblings and other relatives only inherit if there is no wife or children.





    Land is a special case. It depends on how the husband and wife owned it. Usually, no will is necessary if they jointly own the property, whoever survives automatically owns the whole thing.





    I would start by checking with your local City or County Bar Association and getting referrals.
    For starters when a person dies without a will they are considered ';intestate'; which leaves a chain by which the belongings and property goes to. The spouse if legally married not just a live in partner is the first to get anything. If there is no spouse then the estate goes to the biological children then if no children the parents of the deceased. She needs to get an attorney most of them will work on a basis where they get paid a protion of the cash worth of the estate when it is settled so she should not have to pay up front. She will be appointed as the personal representative of the estate by the courts. Also make sure she has the bank check into the insurances on teh home. Some people have a death clause in their policies that if one of the spouses passes away then the mortgage is forgiven. Often times this does not apply to suicides though so she will have to look into it.





    Also on the home most homes are considered what htey call ';homestead exempt'; which means creditors of his cannot touch the house since it is still her residence. they can get anythign else of value but not hte home and usually one vehicle. They cannot put her in a position where she will become homeless.
    It would help if you told us what state you're in, as a widow's rights vary from state to state...as do points of contact for low or no-cost legal aid.
    Tell her to go to the local county courthouse and file PROBATE Intestate.





    then tell me in what state she lives.





    EDITED BASED ON STATE:





    Under the rules of California Intestate Succession the following apply.





    The rights of inheritance for a person who is married at death depends upon the nature of the assets owned. Assets can be community or quasi-community property (acquired during marriage either in or out of California) or separate property (owned before marriage or acquired during marriage by gift or inheritance).





    All community property and quasi-community property passes entirely to the surviving spouse.





    Any separate property of the decedent is distributed to the surviving spouse or domestic partner and other relatives, depending on the relatives who survive, as follows:





    Spouse or domestic partner and children: One-half to spouse or domestic partner and one-half to one child if there is only one child. If there is more than one child, one-third goes to the spouse or domestic partner and two-thirds to the children, in equal shares.





    If there are no children or grandchildren (if there is a deceased child, the children of the deceased child take his or her share), then one-half to the spouse and one-half to the decedent's parents equally, or one-half to the surviving parent if one parent is deceased.





    If there are no children, grandchildren, or parents of the deceased, then one-half goes to the spouse and one-half to the decedents' brothers and sisters, equally (half-brothers and half-sisters share equally with full brothers and sisters). If there are any deceased brothers or sisters, the children of the deceased brother or sister take that parent's share, equally.





    If there are no children, grandchildren, parents, brothers or sisters, nieces or nephews, then all of the separate property passes to the surviving spouse.





    THEREFORE, her immediate concern is protection for herself and all assets of the estate. I would advise not allowing anyone into the home and to contact a local probate attorney immediately depending on the amount of the estate.





    At the very least, she needs someone she can trust to maintain distance during the probate procedures.





    Remember, anything that is JOINTLY held, (as in the home deeded Joint Tenants with right of survivorship) is hers without probate including any insurance with her as beneficiary and those things owned as marital property she retains HER portion PLUS 1/2 of his.





    For example, if they own a car in both names without the above JTWROS, then she would own 75% of the car.





    These are over-simplifications for example only. You really need to get her to a probate attorney.





    Once you take care of protecting her from the hounds, take her to an attorney for a full review of the situation.
    I believe because she was/is married to the deceased that she is entitled to his estate and belongings. This does include debt. I would strongly advise her to seek legal council. If her in laws have another agenda, they may have already sought legal council. I know she has no income however a lawyer may take payment after everything is settled and she sells off enough assets to pay the bill.


    Try this site: http://www.worldlawdirect.com/ I am not sure if they will be able to help you as i have never used them but it is worth a shot if you can obtain some legal advice.


    Good Luck!
    your friend is in titled to everything she was married to him and just because their is no will doesn't mean anything. the parents of the husband are just talking crap because they are hurt and didn't have a clue! if he wasn't married to anyone and just had a girlfriend it would then go to family which in this case would go to the mother. any way you can call any lawyer in your state to find out were you stand in a legal matter it is free until you hire them to fight your case. i hope this helps you and good luck! your friend doesn't have to worry she will be fine they cant do anything!
    I can advise you on two states.





    Illinois: When the husband dies the estate is DIVIDED between the spouse and the children. The spouse assumes all debt. Some instances, the creditors such as the mortgage company or car loan will demand immediate satisfaction and may require the sale of assets.





    In Wisconsin: The estate goes to the spouse and so does all the debt.





    Both states have a probate period in which others may make a claim on the estate. It goes to court and the judge decides if the claim is valid.





    Contact a probate attorney in your area to find out what more about your personal situation.
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